Now I need your opinion. I ran into a woman that I used to work with. She is going to school also, albeit not the one I attend. I was meeting a guy that went to school with me, I loaned him materials to study for an upcoming licensure exam. Before he arrived she asked if I was sure I wanted to loan out my materials, because she had previously and had a difficult time getting hers returned. I stated that I trusted him and didn't have a problem. Well then, in walks my guy friend. Goodness, I thought my woman friend was going to slip to the floor when she saw him. He is good looking (think Patrick Swayze before he got sick). After she had seen him, she changed her tune all together, wonder why? LOL
For some background on her, and why I need your opinion. She formerly worked with me as I stated above. She was married and had small children when I first met her. She had been having an affair with a co-worker for probably 5 to 6 years before I met her now it's been going on for probably 19+ years. This continued for alooooong time, the co-worker and her eventually broke up and she stayed married, but later started the affair back up again, if it ever ended. Oh, and the co-worker she is fooling around with is approximately 20 years her senior, and every time I see him I go ewwwww gag barf ewwwww! I may be wrong, but I think the main attraction there was that he had won the lottery to the tune of $100,000. So, eventually she divorces husband. Goes on cruises with boyfriend, tells his daughter not to look forward to inheritance cause there won't be one, she's helping him spend his money. She still has boyfriend, but now he spends the winter in the sunny south while she goes to school here. Oh, and said ex-husband kills self by drinking antifreeze.
After seeing my schoolmate she tells me that boyfriend and her will eventually break up, as she wants someone more her age (I wonder is he running out of money?) She wants to know all about guy friend. Guy friend wants to know her history. I don't want to say anything bad about her, but she is the kind I wouldn't turn my back on. She is an IT (it's all about me, me, me) girl. He has children (he has custody), she doesn't want the hassle, and let's face it, ex-husband raised hers while she was with boyfriend. She is the kind of woman that if you can be of use to her, she is good with that, if not she doesn't know you exist. I'm sure we all know one?
How would you handle this? And what do you think of this kind of woman? Tell me your experiences.
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Touchy subject. Hmmm? A few questions: How close are you to either party? I would be inclined to tell him her history without going into too much detail. Give him enough to draw his own conclusion with your info and what he thinks of her himself. I just don't think it would be fair to mislead him since he asked you.
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Easy one. Tell him what you know about this manipulative woman. In my humble opinion, why have another victim on her list ? Save that man !!
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I'm not sure I'd say too much to the guy other than what you actually know first-hand to be true about her. He's a big boy, and he has to decide on his own if the alleged master manipulating slutpuppy is someone he could have a relationship with. If you pass along hearsay and it's proven as such, you'll get the shafty end of that stick. You may lose him as a friend, if that's even important to you. Besides, who's to say they wouldn't be perfect for one another? My two cents.
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Oooh she sounds like she belongs out here trying to snag a Money Town man! If the guy is a good friend I'd tip him off without totally bad mouthing her. Just give him enough to figure it out on his own.
He is your friend too. Tell him the truth, no one deserves this broad, especially a friend.
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